The Sunday Scaries: Why Anxiety Can Hit Before the Week Begins
- Savannah Dasilva
- Oct 27, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: 2 days ago
It’s Sunday evening. You’re technically still in the weekend, but part of your brain has already moved on to Monday.
You’re thinking about emails you haven’t received yet. Meetings that haven’t happened. The alarm going off. School. Work. Everything you need to remember. Maybe you're mentally reorganizing the entire week while simultaneously trying to convince yourself to relax.
Welcome to the Sunday Scaries!
Sunday anxiety can show up as racing thoughts, irritability, dread, restlessness, difficulty sleeping, or simply noticing that your mood changes as the weekend comes to an end.
And sometimes it’s worth getting curious about what that feeling is telling you.
Why Does Anxiety Get Worse on Sundays?
There isn't one universal reason. For some people, Sunday anxiety is connected to anticipatory anxiety, where thoughts about something that hasn't happened yet begin creating distress in the present.
For others, the transition itself is difficult. Your weekend may have fewer demands, more flexibility, or more control over how you spend your time. Sunday evening signals that another set of expectations is approaching.
Then there are the actual circumstances you're returning to. Maybe your workload is unreasonable. You're struggling at school. You're masking all day. Your calendar doesn't leave enough room for your capacity. You're dealing with difficult relationships at work. You're already burnt out. Sometimes Sunday dread isn't something to talk yourself out of. It can be information worth paying attention to.
Anticipatory Anxiety Can Pull Monday Into Sunday
One frustrating thing about anticipatory anxiety is that you can find yourself experiencing Monday before Monday has actually arrived.
Maybe you're:
rehearsing conversations
checking your calendar repeatedly
mentally running through everything that could go wrong
making increasingly elaborate to-do lists
replaying something that happened last week
checking work messages when you meant to be resting
struggling to enjoy what you're doing because part of your attention is already on tomorrow
Planning isn't inherently a problem. Sometimes making a plan genuinely makes Monday easier.
The question is whether the planning is helping you prepare or whether you've reached the point where you're spending your Sunday trying to solve an entire week in advance.
Neurodivergence Can Add Another Layer
For some neurodivergent people, the transition from weekend to weekday can bring its own challenges. Monday might mean returning to environments with more sensory input, social expectations, executive functioning demands, schedules, commuting, masking, or less control over your time. Transitions themselves can also take energy. If you've spent the weekend recovering from the previous week, realizing that you're about to begin the cycle again can feel particularly difficult.
That doesn't mean every neurodivergent person experiences Sunday anxiety or that neurodivergence is the cause. But if this pattern keeps happening, it may be useful to notice what specifically changes between your weekend and your weekday.
What Are Your Sunday Scaries Actually About?
Instead of immediately asking, How do I make this anxiety go away?, you might start with:
What am I anticipating? Is it one particular meeting? The amount you have to do? Having to wake up early? Social interaction? Commuting? Sensory overload? Not knowing what the week will bring? Then:What feels different about Monday compared with today?
And: Does my week actually fit my current capacity?
You don't have to turn Sunday evening into an intensive self-reflection exercise. The point is simply to get more specific.
“I'm anxious about Monday” can feel enormous.
“I'm dreading a three-hour meeting where I have to mask and can't take a break” gives you more information.
A Few Things You Can Experiment With
There isn't one Sunday routine that's going to work for everyone. But you can experiment with making the transition into the week a little more workable.
Get some of Monday out of your head.If you're mentally holding ten reminders at once, write them somewhere you'll actually look tomorrow. You don't need to keep rehearsing them so you won't forget.
Decide when preparation ends. If planning helps, give yourself a defined period to look at your calendar, prepare what you need, and then stop. You don't have to spend the whole evening preparing.
Reduce unnecessary Monday decisions. If choosing clothes, packing a bag, figuring out breakfast, or remembering what to bring tends to create stress, doing some of that ahead of time may help.
Notice what makes Monday particularly difficult. Instead of focusing only on reducing anxiety, look at the demand underneath it. Is there anything that can be changed, accommodated, delegated, communicated, or approached differently?
Leave something enjoyable in Monday. Your week doesn't have to begin exclusively with obligations. Maybe that's an iced coffee, a favourite lunch, music during your commute, a walk, or something else small that you genuinely enjoy.
And if none of these things magically makes Sunday anxiety disappear, that doesn't mean you're doing them wrong.
When Sunday Anxiety Keeps Happening
An occasional difficult Sunday is different from realizing that every weekend ends in dread.
If this happens regularly, you might get curious about the bigger pattern. Are you exhausted before the week even begins? Does work or school consistently demand more than you have available? Are you spending the week masking and the weekend recovering?
Has rest started feeling like something you have to earn? Is there something about your environment, relationships, expectations, or workload that isn't sustainable?
Those questions may be more useful than simply finding another Sunday evening routine.
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I'm Savannah Dasilva, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) and expressive arts therapist in Toronto. I work with children, teens, and adults, including queer and neurodivergent clients and people living with chronic illness and pain.
My approach is collaborative, creative, and flexible. You don't need to arrive knowing exactly why Sundays are hard or what you're supposed to do about it. We can start with what you're noticing.
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